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on living with more ease

Everything is Practicing!                       How Being a Bad Swimmer Helped Me With Performance Pressure
Robyn Costa Robyn Costa

Everything is Practicing! How Being a Bad Swimmer Helped Me With Performance Pressure

Learning to swim as a grown-ass woman in her fifties is no joke - or rather, it is, but…

What in the world does being bad at swimming have to do with performing on stage? Have you ever thought about your stages of stress? I realized that my stages of stress were the same, regardless of what activity I was doing. Here’s my story about how learning a new skill (swimming) and not being good at it, helps me handle when things don’t go as well as I’d like on stage.

At first, I thought the directions I was giving myself was about gaining control, but now I realize that I was giving myself the support I needed to continue.

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The Gift of Presence - a Labor Love Story
Robyn Costa Robyn Costa

The Gift of Presence - a Labor Love Story

I don’t know about you, but I hate labor stories. They’re so traumatic, and bloody… But this isn’t that - I promise. My daughter gave me the beautiful gift of presence.

Anyway, this is for all of you future labor journeyers or labor-adjacent journeyers out there.


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Does walking down stairs hurt?
Robyn Costa Robyn Costa

Does walking down stairs hurt?

Does walking down stairs hurt? It doesn’t have to. Here are three simple ways to make going up and down stairs easier and pain free.


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Snake in a Can
Robyn Costa Robyn Costa

Snake in a Can

How wonderful it would be if our bodies came equipped with a little button that we could push to automatically release the compression that we inevitably revert to? Like that Snake in a Can toy!

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